Tag: mental health
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The Silent Scars of Small “t” Traumas: Understanding Their Impact and Path to Healing
When we think of trauma, our minds often go to dramatic, life-altering events—the “big T” traumas like natural disasters, abuse, or violence. Yet, there’s another kind of trauma that often flies under the radar but can leave equally deep emotional scars: the small “t” traumas. These are the subtle, repeated experiences that shape our emotional…
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Understanding Trauma: What It Is, How We Measure It, and Its Impact
Trauma is an experience that can shake the very foundation of a person’s sense of safety, stability, and well-being. It’s not just about what happens to someone but how their body, mind, and emotions respond to it. Trauma can manifest from a single distressing event or unfold over time through prolonged exposure to difficult circumstances.…
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Resilience and the Coda Experience: Navigating Challenges and Embracing Growth
Resilience is the capacity to bounce back from adversity, adapt to challenges, and overcome setbacks. For Children of Deaf Adults (Codas), resilience often becomes a defining characteristic, as many of us navigate the unique dynamics of growing up in families that bridge the Deaf and hearing worlds. Resilience isn’t something we’re born with—it’s a skill…
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Parentification: The Hidden Struggle for Codas
In the ideal family dynamic, parents nurture and children thrive. However, for many Children of Deaf Adults (Codas), the family structure takes on a different shape. Codas often find themselves navigating adult responsibilities at an early age, a phenomenon known as parentification. While some may adapt to these roles temporarily, others face long-term emotional and…
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Understanding Suicidality in the Deaf Community and Codas: A Call for Research and Action
Suicide is a public health crisis that affects all communities, but Deaf individuals and Children of Deaf Adults (Codas) face unique challenges that elevate their risks. Despite these vulnerabilities, significant gaps exist in our understanding of suicidality within these populations. This blog explores what we know, what remains to be uncovered, and why we urgently…
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The Insidiousness of Language Deprivation
IntroductionLanguage deprivation, the lack of accessible language for Deaf individuals, is not just a failure to provide a critical tool for communication; it has profound impacts on a person’s cognitive, social, and emotional well-being. Denying a Deaf child access to a full language, whether signed or spoken, is essentially denying them the opportunity to develop…
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Using DBT to Support Deaf People and Their Families
Emotional dysregulation is a challenge many individuals face, but for members of the Deaf community and their families, unique cultural and linguistic barriers can intensify this struggle. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), a highly structured and evidence-based therapeutic approach, offers a powerful tool for addressing these challenges. Using the skills deficit framework, DBT can be adapted…
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The Real Barriers of Deafness: Society’s Role in Creating Exclusion and Inequality
The social model of disability, developed in response to the medical model, argues that disability is not an inherent attribute of an individual but a result of the interaction between individuals and an environment that does not accommodate their needs. For Deaf individuals, this means their suffering often arises not from their deafness but from…
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How Do Codas Know They Need Help?
A Journey of Recognition and Healing Recently, I was asked a question that stayed with me: How do Codas (Children of Deaf Adults) know they need help? , I posed the same question to my brother. His response? He laughed and said: “Are they breathing? They’re Codas; of course, they need help.” While his words…
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Are Deaf Trauma Responses Different? A Closer Look at the Unique Impacts of Trauma on the Deaf Community
Trauma is a deeply personal experience that anyone can experience, but for members of the Deaf community, its effects often are compounded by unique cultural, linguistic, and systemic challenges. These challenges contribute to trauma responses that may differ in expression or origin from those of hearing individuals. This post examines 11 specific trauma responses observed…
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